Is It Fair??

First it happen to me, then her, and yesterday she.. Really make me want to write this, just as my own opinion..

Is it fair if...

They can talk to their opposite with freedom and cant be control. Hang up in a phone hours and hours. Use such a flirting word and so on but at the time you want to do the same, they didnt give you a permission.. With the simple reason "they didnt like it!"

Is it fair if..

They can be a friend to their opposite. You cant stop them coz they say it is normal to have an opposite friend like that. But at the time you want to the same, they dont want it. And more worse you have to break with current opposite friend that you already have..

Is it fair if..

They can freely check your inbox, your message, your ym and can easily delete the number of the sender that they didnt like you to be friendly with. But at the time you want to do the same, they argue with it and give a reason cant disturb their own personal life..

Is it fair if..

They can go hang out with their opposite anytime they like. Watching movies, singing, lunch, dinner and even travelling together. But at the time you want to do the same, they will become anger and say that you try to play and cheating behind them..

So ?? Is it fair??