4/11, My Choice Is ??

Today is 3/11. It is means that tomorrow is 4/11. It is a birthday of her/him. I dont know what to do. Come in my mind is 3 choices. And from these three, I need to choose 1 as my decision. And what will I choose?? I keep thinking about it until now.. and there only few times left..

1. Wish her/him birthday - It is a first choice that I have. It seem very easy rite? Just text happy birthday and send to her/him. But for me, it is not. Wish her/him like give her/him hope. Last time I decide to wish her/him, her/him ask me to fulfil one of her/him wishes. I dont know what to do so I just keep silent. So now, it is hard for me to choose this.

2. No need to wish her/him birthday - Second choice that I can choose as my decision. It seem cruel but maybe this is the best choice that I can choose. Some of my friends that know about this also said it is better for me not to wish her/him, since her/him hope something from me. Maybe not wish her/him will make her/him realize to stop hope something from me.

3. Ask friend to wish her/him birthday - The third and the final choice. At first, this is what I want to do. Ask help from my friend to wish her/him birthday on behalf of me. Maybe for me it is a best choice. Her/him know I wish her/him and at the same time no need to wish by myself. But one said doing this is more cruel than not wish her/him at all.

So, at last what will I choose from this three choices? Wish? No need to wish? Ask friend to wish? Em.. it seem easy to decide but for me it is hard.. Even I feel hatred to her/him, still very tough for me to choose what should I do. And the time is keep running.. So finally, my choice is ??