Is That Wrong To Care??

Few weeks ago when I really down coz a lot of problems suddenly came, and I cant stand it anymore. This fren said to me "you can share if you want" So I think for a while and decide to share with this fren. Finish and as I already know, the word that will come out from this fren mouth is be patient, chill, cheer up.. But I still happy with that.

Few days ago when this fren feel depressed. Down and down.. And this time I try to comfort this fren and say what this fren said to me before "you can share if you want" But what I hope is not what I expected. This fren said to me "nothing to share, coz at last this fren know what I will said is be patient, chill, cheer up" And that word make me speechless.

To this fren, I dont know what else to say. But rite now I think I know. For your info, Im sorry coz Im not a good fren. But what I try to do is help. The same, at the time I share my problem I already know at the end what I get is chill chill and so on. So for what I decide to share it? It just as simple as that. When you share something with someone, it is like you release some load inside your mind and Im sure you will be better then. You always said that people came to you when they have problem but run away when you have problem.. Really sure with that? From my experience it is not like that. They care to you but they know you dont want any help. What can they do? I try but what I get is just a word that make me want to jump from a building. To be honest, really speechless and sort of " kecewa" with words that come from your mouth. But, it is ok if that is what you really want. Once again no hurt feeling here ok? Last.. I have a question to people outside there: is that wrong to care??